Friday, April 29, 2011

about club

A club is an association of two or more people united by a common interest or goal. club is a place for people that want dance and have drink together. It's easy to get drunk in a club. When people drunk they do things different, girl may be get home by man, or other things can happen.
When a girl going to club they are somthing they should care about.
1, what happen if you are drunk

normaly when you drunk, you should stop drinking, drink some water, or tell you finish to take your home. you closer firend or boyfriend.

2, wat heppen is some guy want shout you a drink.

if you are not drunk and you kind like that guy, you can have it, or other wise just say no.

3. what kind of alcohol are not easy to get drunk

the alcohol mix with greentea or spirt. this is harder to get drunk

Sexual harassments may happen anywhere! (3)

If you get raped by a relative or family member, go to a safe place first. If you want to report the crime, notify the police immediately. Reporting the crime can help you regain a sense of personal power and control.Call a friend, or someone else you trust who can be with you and give you support.
Preserve all physical evidence of the assault. Do not shower, bathe, douche, eat, drink, wash your hands, or brush your teeth until after you have had a medical examination. Save all of the clothing you were wearing at the time of the assault. Place each item of clothing in a separate paper bag. Do not use plastic bags. Do not clean or disturb anything in the area where the assault occurred.
Get medical care as soon as possible. Go to a hospital emergency department or a specialized forensic clinic that provides treatment for sexual assault victims. Even if you think that you do not have any physical injuries, you should still have a medical examinationand discuss with a health care provider the risk of exposure to sexually transmitted infections and the possibility of pregnancy resulting from the sexual assault. Having a medical exam is also a way for you to preserve physical evidence of a sexual assault.
Write down as much as you can remember about the circumstances of the assault, including a description of the assailant.
Get information whenever you have questions or concerns. After a sexual assault, you have a lot of choices and decisions to make - e.g., about getting medical care, making a police report, and telling other people. You may have concerns about the impact of the assault and the reactions of friends and family members. You can get information by calling a rape crisis center, a hotline, or other victim assistance agencies.
Talk with a counselor who is trained to assist rape victims. Counseling can help you learn how to cope with the emotional and physical impacts of the assault. You can find a counselor by contacting a local rape crisis center, a hotline, a counseling service, other victim assistance agencies,etc.

Below are some links that could help you out!
The first video is a clip I found in youtube which tells you what to do to sue the person who raped you.

Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_should_you_do_if_you_were_raped#ixzz1Kto9Kt3U



And these are some links that you could consult when you need further consulatation.

National Sexual Assault Online Hotline [by Rainn]
http://www.rainn.org/index.php

National Hotlines and resources for sexual harassment [by Feminist Majority Foundation]
http://feminist.org/911/harass.html

Sexual harassment prevention program  [by UCDavis Health System]
http://www.ucdmc.ucdavis.edu/hr/hrdepts/harassment_mediation/sexual_harass_prgrm/

-Mabel Ngan

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Do not walk along at night, girls please protect yourself.

According these two examples, girls cannot walk along at midnight, Anna and Jennifer was get hurt, Anna just lose some money, but Jennifer lose her life. Girls should know how to protect themselves, walk along at midnight is too dangerous, girls do not have so much power to against robber, especially walk along. Girls can go to party, but please let your friend take you to home; otherwise, some dangerous thing will happened, some guys want to look for a girl who is walk by herself, some guys only robbed money, some guys will hurt the girl, another guys even want to raped the girls, so, girls do not walk along at night, learn how to protect yourself.

-Jiamei

A girl was died when she walk along at night.

Another girl is not so lucky as Anna, her name is Jennifer, when she finish her party, she went home by herself, her friend want to drive her to home, but she think no need, because she also came home at midnight. So, a dangerous thing happened, a guy came to robbed her bag, but Jennifer do not let him to do so, actually the guy also afraid, then, the guy hurt Jennifer stolen her bag, because it was midnight, nobody know Jennifer is hurtled and she also unconscious. At next day, when someone fined her, she has already died because she lose so much blood.

-Jiamei

Dangerous! A girl walk along at midnight

As many entertainment increases, more and more people like play at night, especially some girls. Girls walk alone at night is quite dangerous, but some of them can not realize how dangerous it is, so, this will cause many problems on girls. For example, a girl named Anna was walked at night about 1:00 am by herself when she finished her party. Then a man suddenly jumped out from a bosky boscage. He want to prick Anna’s eyes, then Anna protect her eyes, the man rapid rob Anna’s all bonds, mobiles, rings and run away. Luckily, Anna did not get hurt. Then police get this criminal, he said when they rob the bonds, they all prefer want to find the weakness people, for example, old people, girls, but general speaking, the old people will not go out at night, but many girls usually go home at midnight by themselves, so, they can rob them very easy.

-Jiamei

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

How to get rid of the bad guys follow girls

As a girl, when you walks on the way home and find out a person is always following behind you with your no intention of looking back. And when you pay attention to him, he does not naturally escape; you go he goes, you stop he stops, which indicates that you are being tracked by the bad guys. To face this situation, what should you do?

1.      Be calm, do not panic
2.      The rapid observation of the environment, clear the road conditions, where the smooth, where the barrier, where many people, where is the unit
3.      Immediately shake the bad buy off. The method is run away to nearest unit or the place where many people have. If it is night, running to where with bright lights. If there are residents near to you, run there for help.
4.      Positive phase, as sharply asked:” What are you doing?” scared him away with your own righteousness; if he do not escape, you can shout, attracting pedestrians. If he do not run , then you need to react immediately as you run.